The 16 Guidelines for Life

The 16 Guidelines for Life

Kindness

Kindness says: “I want you to be happy.” To be kind means to be friendly, caring, generous, benevolent, considerate, respectful, fair and affectionate. We all know in our hearts when we have received or offered kindness because of the warm feeling it brings. Is there anyone who does not want to experience kindness from another person?

Kindness knows with exquisite wisdom when it is appropriate to say or do something. It is found in the small details. A gentle touch on the cheek or a soft support of the elbow guiding someone across the road. Sustaining eye contact for just that moment longer. Making a telephone call. Remembering the little things that please someone.

If we act in a kind way, it may seem that we are putting someone else’s happiness ahead of ours, but in practice it doesn’t work that way. Being kind invariably feels good, lifts our own spirits, and nourishes us in ways that we don’t always acknowledge. Everyone benefits.

Is it possible to imagine a world in which everyone shows kindness to each other? Is kindness something we can learn? What can we do to become more kind?

 
Quotes

"What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness."

  • Jean Jacques Rousseau

"Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love."

  • Lao Tzu


"The poverty of the West is loneliness and indifference. There is hunger for ordinary bread, and there is hunger for love, for kindness, and for thoughtfulness — and this is the great poverty that makes people suffer so much."

  • Mother Teresa


"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around."

  • Leo Buscaglia


"Whether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not, there isn't anyone who doesn't appreciate kindness and compassion."

  • His Holiness the Dalai Lama


"Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for a kindness."

  • Seneca

 

 


 
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